Friends are generally people you are acquainted with but to be in a friendship with someone means you know the person inside out. Understand that, the minute you decide on befriending someone, you've made a decision to support them in any way possible and stand by them no matter how distasteful whatever they might be going through is. Friends generally don't reveal each others secret, friends don't set out to frame each other up, friends don't envy or wish evil for each other and friends certainly are not supposed to be dead-weight on you. The signs would always be there when a "friend" is not really what they say they are; don't be blinded by the love you have for them not to see it. When a person proves to you more times than you can count that they've not got your back, it's time to stop being their friend! Don't be afraid to loose friends. They are not supposed to be around you anyway if all they do is feed you with negative energy and supp the good thoughts out of you. Life must be lived not endured and how do you live your life if all you are up to is pleasing people that would throw you under the bus at the first sight of evil?
#growtogether book a session now lets talk about recognizing dead weight and how to cut them off.
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